Which team member does these 3 things EVERY day?
Can you name the one person on your team who does these three simple things EVERY single day?
1) Has a great attitude.
2) Gives their very best effort.
3) Treats people really well.
Regardless of circumstances.
This is the mentally toughest person on your team.
A player, a team, a coach, and/or a program are raising the bar, (not lowering it) by adding these three tenants of Mental Toughness. They are challenging for sure, but 100% controllable.
You don't need to sacrifice results, rather focus on what you actually have control over. Let go of goals, (and outcome-based thinking) and focus on commitments, controllable and true mental toughness.
There is a lot more accountability here (and that's what makes this tough) because, unlike outcomes, commitments are 100% inside our control.
The beauty of sports is that the boundaries of winning and losing are predetermined. They have already been defined for us. We don't need to spend a lot of time trying to figure them out or focusing on them. We can focus all our energy on things within our grasp and our control.